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The Art of Healing with Gold: Kintsugi, Acceptance, and the LGBTIQ+ Experience

When I began my journey as a Psychotherapist, I felt a deep need to find something I could truly identify with. I wanted to go beyond academic bibliography and that psychological bubble saturated with technical jargon that often feels distant and difficult to grasp. In my work, I use Metaphor as a vehicle to facilitate the process. Bringing psychology into an accessible language is my way of bringing the Therapeutic Process closer to those who trust me. In this article, I will intend to explore the spiritual and profound side that guides my work as an Integrative Psychotherapist.I firmly believe that therapy is not a mechanical repair, but a human connection that transcends superficial relationships. In a world dictated by the mantra “you are what you have,” it is easy to end up feeling empty. When I welcome people into

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Inhabiting the Body: Beyond the Erection Toward a Reconciled Masculinity

One of the most recurring themes in my experience as an LGBTQ+ Affirmative Psychotherapist is how we relate to ourselves as sexual beings. From a broader perspective, including my work with heterosexual men, I’ve found that difficulties in achieving a fulfilling sex life aren’t just limited to physical conditions; they are often tied to a limiting vision of the erection as the masculine totem.When the body does not respond as expected—whether due to biological or emotional factors—we disconnect from ourselves. True recovery is not about returning to a “perfect machine,” but about working on an adaptation that allows us to enjoy a freer, more flexible, and authentic sexuality. Mapping the Issue: The Importance of a Medical Diagnosis The first step in any serious process is a medical evaluation. Before diving into emotional factors, we must identify potential physical causes, as

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The Expat Reality Check: Navigating Culture Shock and the Silence of Isolation

Moving to another country is likely one of the bravest decisions you have ever made. However, you soon discover that the adventure goes far beyond learning a new language or changing your post code. Often, the initial excitement gives way to a profound feeling of not belonging and isolation.As an Expat, you are not just facing a new map; you are facing the challenge of managing uprootedness, the disorientation of your values, and an adaptation of your own identity. Expat loneliness arises precisely in that gap: where the host culture clashes with your personal history. Managing Culture Shock and Expat Loneliness Culture shock is not just about different mealtimes or weather; it is an internal process of loss and readjustment. On this journey, finding a therapist who speaks your language and has personally experienced the Expat life makes all the

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Internalized Homophobia: Self-Acceptance and Mental Health

We often hear that being lesbian, gay, or bisexual (LGB) is “socially accepted” and that there is no reason to complain because discrimination is a thing of the past. While it is true that significant progress has been made and there is greater acceptance than 20 years ago, it is still common in my practice to work with people under the age of 30 facing rejection based on their sexual orientation or gender identity.Those of us who grew up in environments where our sexual identity was something to be hidden know that the reality is different. The process of accepting who we are is not linear; it is marked by an invisible norm: the presumption of heterosexuality and cisnormativity (the assumption that everyone identifies with the gender assigned at birth).This fear has a name: internalized homophobia. It is an invisible

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What is Affirmative Therapy and Why is it Essential for the LGBTQ+ Community?

Often, living in a heteropatriarcal and binary society model forces LGBTQ+ individuals to face discrimination just for being different. Unfortunately, this often occurs even when they seek for mental health support. For this reason, affirmative therapy is considered the right choice.For the LGBTQ+ community, mental health is intrinsically linked to validation and the freedom to be oneself. However, many people in our community have suffered from a lack of understanding when working with therapists who, while well-intentioned, end up pathologizing their lives. I have experienced this pathologization myself.This is where LGBTQ-affirmative therapy marks a turning point, transforming the consultation into a safe space for empowerment and authenticity. Redefining support: beyond tolerance Unlike traditional therapeutic models, LGBTQ-affirmative therapy is not merely “friendly.” There is a clear line between an LGBTIQ+ friendly approach —where the professional simply does not discriminate— and the

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